I have become very selective in my grocery shopping. I buy blueberries and apples. Ben sometimes eats them, sometimes not.
I like grapes. They are low in calories and make a good snack. But every time I reach for them, I pause. I worry that one day, in a moment of distraction, I might feed grapes to Ben.
God knows how often I turn on the stove to cook Ben’s chicken, sit in front of the computer, and then rush back when I realize I have something cooking. For Ben’s safety, grapes never make it into my cart.
I have a few light dumbbells for exercise. I want heavier ones – maybe a full set with barbells and a kettlebell. But then I imagine one coming loose and hitting Ben. That thought stops me.
It is the same with recliners and rocking chairs. The risk of hurting him, even by accident, is one I am not willing to take.
Of course, I could fence him off when I work out or when I sit in a recliner. But I do not want to live that way – separated by caution.
So, I wait. I think. I choose safety again.
For now, Ben’s wellbeing comes first. Always.
Do you have someone you care for so deeply that you would rather give up a little freedom and joy just to keep them safe? And just as important – do you have someone who cares for you in the same way?
Love makes us careful. It teaches us to guard, to protect, to pay attention. Sometimes that love is from a faithful friend, a family member, or a loyal companion like Ben. And always, above all, it is from God, who watches over us with the same kind of love — patient, protective, and unending.
“Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God.” (1 Jn 4:7)
I invite you to say this prayer.
Father, thank you for your love. Thank you for showing me how to love. I pray I can love and care for the people around me. I pray in the name of Jesus, amen.
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